saturday and sunday was a wake weekend for me. I was at 2 wakes...and heard of a few more death....

it got me thinking about life and death. it got me to think about how we live our lives. it got me to think about people.

we always have good things to say about babies.... "oh he/she is so cute...so clever, so pretty/handome...so tall....... when he/she grow up..will be a doctor or lawyers....."

no one ever says baby is not cute, not pretty, no handsome, they are always not stupid or dumb....it seems all babies gorw up to be doctors or lawyers.

in death... we always have good thing to say about others "oh, he/she is such a nice person...forever helpful.....he/she die a peaceful death, neve suffer..he/she did so manyu good things in his/her life........................."

no one ever say bad things about a dead person. he/she is never bitchy?....never piss someone off?... never s shelfish person? what about a tryant boss who died?

if we can just be so nice throughout our lives...won't the world be a better place?

RIP

another useless thought.