i was at a wake the other night, praying for the dead.

it was a noisy affair.... too noisy for comfort...even for the dead..i think.

there are people playing majong and cards in the wake...nearby there are workers mending the road with the drilling and all, there are a lot of people at the wake too, and a group of people was saying their prayers for the decesased lady when we got there, so you can imagine the noise level....

then our turn came...we said our prayer....

after us, another group, this time the prayer was in teochew.

the noise was crazy.

i told my wife, if i died i want a peaceful wake. i dont need so many goups of people to come pray for my soul. if no one comes to pray for me, that i consider is good, one group is more than enough. two is out!!!! and NO NO!

i REALLY want to rest in peace.

to all my friends, come visit me with sunflowers and tao huay...both my fav.

sunflower represent happiness..... happiness that now i am gone and you dont have to read my useless thought.