its been a long time since i blog..... well it feels like a long time.

i have not have time for many things....... its really a tiring december from me... well thats 2006. its 2007 now, i am a new dog.

i was reading an article by sumiko tan above her 23 year freindship with a friend that have just ended, over an argument. she goes on to say she wanted to extend an olive branch...but she did not cos she felt she did not deserve the harsh words by the friend.

i tot it was sad. 23 years is a long time. how many of us can say we have a friendship thats 23 year long? i think i may have..... in fact we lost contact for many years.... since our secondary school days.

to err is human, to forgive, thats divine. why cant we just be the first to extend that olive branch? you are a great man/woman to be able to forgive be it whos ever fault. bury the hatchet, and move on. we need friends and family, there is no overnite hatred, and we can't go on hating, its tiring.

even if we are wrong. i mean what else can beat a 23 year friendship? its not coincidence that we met and became friends. that friend a one in a billion in the world, and that person is your friend for 23 years!.....

i say forgive. be friends. life is so damm short. i may be dead tomorrow, i want my 23 year friend to come to my funeral, cos after the funeral we are friends no more until we meet in heaven.

so to all my friends, i hope we will not come to this stage where we are angry with one another and stop talking. life is short.

maybe i will write email to sumiko to her and tell her how i feel...... about her 23 year friendship.

another useless thought.